Episode 94: Mission (im)possible?
Swanette Kuntze
Swanette Kuntze is an Engineer who turned into a Mindset Coach and Emotional Healer
She works with awakened people in their midlife to manifest their dream life.
Swanette helps people find their mission in life, tune into what is important for them and what makes them really deeply happy. She helps people find their better, deeper, more exciting and happier version of themselves – in all aspects of life.
This allows her clients to have better and more meaningful relationships with loved ones, friends and collegues, perform better in their career and living a healthier and more abundant life.
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Damaged Parents: [00:00:00] Welcome to the Relatively Damaged Podcast by Damaged Parents where different, not belonging. Other dimensional people come to learn, maybe, just maybe we're all a little bit damaged. Someone once told me it's safe to assume 50% of the people I'd meet are struggling and feel wounded in some way. I would venture to say it's closer to 100%.
Every one of us is either currently struggling or has struggled. That made us feel less than like we aren't good enough. We aren't capable. We are relatively damaged. And that's what we're here to talk about. In my ongoing investigation of the damaged self, I want to better understand how others view their own challenges.
Maybe it's not so much about the damage, maybe it's about our perception and how we deal with it. There is a deep commitment to becoming who we are meant to be. How do you do that? How do you find balance after a damaging experience? My hero is the damaged person. The one who faces seemingly insurmountable odds to come out on the other side hole.
Those who stare directly into the face of adversity with unyielding persistence to discover their purpose. These are the people who inspire me to be more fully me. Not in spite of my trials, but because of thumb, let's hear from another hero. Today's topic includes sensitive material, which may not be appropriate for children.
This podcast is provided for informational purposes only, and is not intended as advice. The opinions expressed here were strictly those of the person who gave them.
Today, we're going to talk with Swanette Kuntze. She has many roles in her life, sister, cat mom, engineer, mindset, coach, and more. We'll talk about how she had a near death experience as a child that left her feeling different. And how she found health and healing. Let's talk
Welcome back to Relatively Damaged by Damaged Parents. Today, we've got Swanette Kuntze and she is an engineer who turned into a mindset coach and an emotional healer. I am super excited for this conversation because my experience of engineers is very worldly and not so much on the spiritual side.
Thank you for coming Swanette
Swanette Kuntz: [00:02:24] Thank you so much for having me on the show. I really am happy that I can speak today. And what's your audience. Thanks.
Damaged Parents: [00:02:31] Yeah, for sure. Okay. I believe you said it was like chemical engineering or something like that. How did you even, or when did you start shifting into a more spiritual? I mean, your email does say spiritual changemaker on it. So I'm intrigued. Tell me a story.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:02:52] I think it all started when I was eight years old, because at that time I had a near death experience. Uh, It was the situation that I was lying on a bed with having the doctors around me and I was in coma. And as I was in the situation, I looked on myself from above and I really had this feeling okay.
That is my body, my bio body lying. And I had this feeling, Okay I want to disappear into this totally peaceful and light and yeah, like feeling so free into whatever it was, so it was the light. And the next moment I was pushed back into my body and I felt that I had a long needle into my spinal cord because the doctors took out some liquid.
And at the same time, I could see my parents outside on the floor waiting to come into the room because they had heard me screaming. I woke up from my own screaming and of the pain and then fell back into the coma again. And from this moment on, I have this feeling of duality. Like on the one hand, there is my bio body.
And on the other hand, there are something like, I would say my soul And for me, this was a starting point to I wanted to figure out everything about life. And it was like when I was younger, I was very often in the library reading books. And at the same time I had Yeah, this kind of very special gift that I'm clairvoyant and pre-cognitive so I'm I can look beyond really.
So I started understanding more about life and I, I started with science somehow. So my first education is in medicine. I worked in clinical microbiology. And after that I studied chemical environmental technology and worked in an engineer, an agency that had a pilot project about how toxic substances in houses can impact the health of people.
And only by then I understood. Okay. what happened in my childhood? That was in coma again and again was that I was toxified by pesticides. Yeah. I have my sleeping room on the roof and my parents at that time, it was kind of typical that the, the wooden ceilings have been painted so they painted the ceiling with a color that included pesticides to protect the wood from insects.
But of course now this neurotoxins, and as they kill insects, they also kill little children
Damaged Parents: [00:05:29] Right. So I think because it was microbiology that you had studied also. So I think what I'm hearing in some sense of the word is that these chemicals impact the microbiology of our bodies, but maybe even more so to this spiritual level, I'm trying to understand the.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:05:53] These chemicals are neurotoxins, which means they destroy the nerves yeah. And I could only see black and white no colors anymore. I, I felt faded away again and again Yeah. These toxins also kill insects. This is what they made for, but as this has an impact on bio bodies, it, it has also an impact on human beings.
For me on the one hand, this was like, I wanted to understand what is happening within me, why I'm kind of feeling different, always like why I can't understand life as other people do that. And so for me, it was like the science side and also the spiritual side were kind of awakened at the same time.
Damaged Parents: [00:06:39] Okay. So if you had this experience with the chemicals, which is what put you in a coma And then you were awakened to more than what you had been aware of before that
Swanette Kuntz: [00:06:50] Yeah.
Damaged Parents: [00:06:51] Okay.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:06:52] And somehow during all the time. So I worked in a laboratory then I worked as an engineer and somehow then I came into a business consultancy for personal development and organizational transformation and worked as a consultant for a while. And went more and more into like understanding about personal development, but also about spiritual growth.
So it was like the business side was one thing and my, own personal development or something different at the same time. And I, learned a lot about coaching people. I'm also a certified business coach. I'm certified in NLP and the Emotion Code, so different kind of tools I'm using to help people now.
And for me, it was my own journey. I had to go through to understand how am I working as a soul somehow? And somehow it happened that these gifts disappeared. When I was about 16 years old. So it was like, I suppose, like kind of uneasy. I couldn't even remember that I had this gift and only when I was about 45.
Came back this gift came back. So it was this moment. I had a dog for 16 years and my brother visited me from London. We were outside in the garden doing something, and I got a picture from her. I have to leave you now. And I taught my brother, oh, Nataya. So the name of my dog, she was calling me to go inside and he said, oh, I didn't hear her bark.
And I said, yeah, but I got this picture. And I went inside and she looked at me the eyes wide, open breathing hardly. And again, gave me this, this picture. I have to leave you now. And 15 minutes later, she died in my arms. And this was really like, an overwhelm happened that I got this gift back and I thought, I think I'm going crazy because I call the people with the nice white jackets. Yeah. All the information that I get now from other people, even though I'm normally speaking with them. I get these pictures and information and I thought, Okay.
this is all like going crazy in my mind.
Damaged Parents: [00:08:59] So you literally thought you were going crazy , Did you go to the clinic with the doctors, with the white coats or what were you just thinking? Oh my gosh, I'm going crazy.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:09:08] It was more that I thought I'm going crazy. But on the other hand I got this feeling, no, this is not like being normally crazy. It is something that is opening up and then my memory, came back. So I could remember. Okay. That was a situation when I was a child and I had this kind of feelings and, and pictures before. So it was like, oh yeah, I can remember. But now it's even more strong, more strong than it has been before. And so what I did was I did a lot of research about reading the morphic field about remote viewing about the Akashic records. So all these kind of more woo woo stuff. And for me to understand, okay, is this really like I'm going crazy?
Or is there really a gift behind participated in some remote viewing studies? So this remote viewing is a technique. That was used by the CIA and the Cold War to um, get information from Russia about the military things, whatever.
Damaged Parents: [00:10:12] Okay. So it's a process that you go through.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:10:15] Yeah, this is a process where you mentally go into a state of calmness and then you can see information over the morphic field that you normally don't have access to. So to give you an understanding about what this study is, where the one was that I get a code so these are numbers and different signs.
And they are related to a person that is sitting somewhere. And what I have to do is finding out what is the environment this person is setting. So I have 20 minutes to concentrate about what I can see. What is this around? And then I have to either describe it with words or two to draw it and send it to the the research team.
And I get four different videos to tell. Okay.
Which one is the one that is closest to what I've seen and which one is the, like, say the least something. So bring them in order. And this can be by chance, 25%. And then I got the information back. So the video I I've, ordered as a first one is it's the one. Yeah.
but what I described is So precise, it was a precise description they had in the whole study which means I could not only see, like this guy was sitting on the bench on the hill, but I could also see the surrounding that was not even in the code
Damaged Parents: [00:11:41] So you had written out what you had seen or something like that, and then they show you the videos later, or they don't show it to you. They just show it to the researchers.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:11:50] They show it to me later
Damaged Parents: [00:11:52] Okay.
And you could see not only what was in the video, but also what was not within the screen.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:11:59] Yep.
Damaged Parents: [00:12:00] Cool. That must have been really interesting.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:12:03] Yeah. So I would say I'm now a certified woo woo.
Damaged Parents: [00:12:09] what were your feelings in that moment? Were you like what, or what happened inside of you when you're learning now that you're certified. woo woo. As you said,
Swanette Kuntz: [00:12:20] For me, it wants to prove that I don't have to go into psychotic. I don't know the English word
Damaged Parents: [00:12:26] The mental hospital.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:12:27] Yeah, exactly. But that this is a gift I really do have. And I really come down understanding. Okay. There was a reason why I was damaged as a child. That now I have these gifts back and that I can use it For humanity to create a better world and to help people who are stuck in their life and yeah. To, to help them to also make their spiritual change.
Damaged Parents: [00:12:51] So you really went from very scientific to very spiritual. And you said at 16, you kind of lost that thought or idea or, experience, you know, you didn't really think about it it sounds like. And then at 45, not only did you have that experience with your dog, but then you're reminded of what happened when you were eight.
So how was that shifting from a very scientific perspective to a very spiritual perspective after that long? Or did you maintain some of that spiritualness along the way?
Swanette Kuntz: [00:13:25] No, it, was really that this spirituality. And all the gifts that came with that disappeared for a while, while I was working more as a business consultant and project manager. And only came back when I somehow decided, yeah, on the one hand. Yeah, my dog died and I need to change something. And I was kind of close to a burnout at that time.
And so somehow the universe gave me this gift and taught me, Okay.
you have to stop what you're doing now because you have found something else to do. So it was like, the gift was there, then it disappeared and then it came up even more strong,
but I never left really the scientific part. So I'm always interested about what is behind.
Like when I experienced something, I really want to understand what is it? So I read a lot about remote viewing about how this morphic field works and why this can happen and understanding the scientific data as well behind. So it goes both hand-in-hand.
Damaged Parents: [00:14:32] So almost like, or it seems like it almost happened in that way so that you could connect that scientific with the spiritual and say, no, there is a purpose and a reason am I picking up on that?
Swanette Kuntz: [00:14:44] Yeah, it seems so like, for, for a lot of people, it is like when we come up with this woo woo stuff. Yeah. So this is like the esoteric world uh, that?
this is not proven. And for me, it is. Yeah, because we sometimes don't have the way to measure it at the moment. We say there is no proof, but we have theories about, things how they work.
And if I'm participating in kind of blind studies, like I did for me, this is a kind of proof that it works somehow also, like when I do a. Energy healing on animals. This is also for me. If I work with people, then it could be like the placebo effect. But when I work with animals, they don't have a concept like that.
So seeing that they make a change, as soon as I release the traumas. So here I'm in Madera. So here are a lot of dogs and cats on the street and they come to uh, the canal and they are traumatized. So when I work with them, I can see they make the change after a while they behave differently. And this is not because I worked like doing dog training with them, but I did this energy healing on them.
And this was also for me to kind of proof that there is something behind that. We are not making this up.
Damaged Parents: [00:16:02] Interesting question here. I think, because we have the energy healing, we have the very spiritual side of things, and yet at the same time with that healing, that doesn't stop aging. It doesn't stop some of these other things. And so how could someone maybe reconcile that while the spiritualness exists
maybe there is it's part of the journey that to, to age and grow and, have the perfections in the body and things like that. I'm not sure that's exactly the right question. It's just how it's coming out in my mind.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:16:39] I think that humanity is in a kind of awakening state at the moment. And it is part of our evolution to get access to things that for most of people are not visible at the moment, but will become soon. I think everybody has these kinds of, gifts being clairvoyant or intuitive, but as long as, a third eye is closed.
You can't use it. Yeah.
It's like, if you're blind, you can't see. But as soon as you open your third eye, it is possible also to step more into the other world to understand that there is more that we can see even though yeah. For example, when we use our normal five senses, we always have concepts about life.
We have our cultural background. We have the beliefs about things, some kind of focus. So if we walk around and we both go the same way like going through town, you would see or recognize totally different things. And this, because our conscious mind is kind of filtering a lot of information because otherwise we would be overwhelmed.
Our subconscious mind is recognizing everything. And if you open your third eye, then even your soul gets more information. So for a lot of people, this would be overwhelming if it happens like this, but if it is a process, like an awakening process or like, oh, evolutionary process, then we have the chance to adapt ourselves to what we can recognize.
I'm not sure this is to your question, but kind of, yeah.
Damaged Parents: [00:18:22] I think we're getting there. The good news is we are both trying to, to understand it and comprehend it. We'll get there one of these hopefully before the end of the podcast, but I also think it's a good journey too. For me to not even have an understanding so that I could maybe ask questions that hopefully listeners will be asking and not be afraid to ask those questions.
Right. Because it's also easy for me to get into my head and be like, well, I don't want to ask that question and I'd have to remember that. Well, if that's the thought that maybe is coming up in my mind, then maybe it's a question worth asking, which is why I try to get out what I. I think I want to ask, like, I may not be able to put it into words all the time, but back to what you were talking about.
So I think what I'm hearing you say. Is with a third eye and I would love for you to explain it more to the audience, what the third eye is and what it does. But when this third eye is open, that there is a greater spiritual understanding of the universe, or maybe you see more connectedness. I'm not sure.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:19:30] Yeah. So the third eye is like, an organ that is uh, like the pineal gland. And this is like, connected to the higher realms. So with that opening, we can see things that are, for example, in the fifth dimension and it is blocked. For example, if you use a fluoride, this is blocking them, different other things.
So as soon as you change, like what you put into your body, this can be like a toothpaste or food. This pineal gland will create some hormones again and you will open up your third eye and it means that. Everybody could use it. It does not like only special people have the ability everybody has it because everybody has this pineal gland.
Damaged Parents: [00:20:18] Right. So everyone has the ability to hear what the universe or God or whomever they consider higher power to better understand the depth of this world, or maybe not even just this world, right? the spiritual or, gosh, I'm struggling to come up with the words to describe what I want to say. I think maybe the best way is the connectedness of the universe.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:20:44] Yeah, so you can even see and feel and resonate with all the ambiance that is around you. So people that have the ability can feel what other people are feeling. They can feel like, the energy of a, of a place or talk to animals or to plants or heal with their hands, like doing energy healing.
And of course they can connect to the higher realms and what you said, it is like the connection to the universe.
Damaged Parents: [00:21:14] so if you've got a real science-y person. I know that's not a word, but someone who's dedicated to science and I asked you this because you would study that. And then you came to this other realm, did having the knowledge of what happens in the body. Cause I heard you say you back it up with research and things like that, which now helps you to believe that because you have the ability to research, it gives you better understanding that maybe this is not just woo woo there is something to it. Did it also give like a reason or a purpose that these things happen? I mean, I don't know if that's a question. Cause what I'm thinking in my mind is our bodies are so complex for instance, our bodies.
Right. And. Between the cells, there is space and in that space, something happens is what I'm thinking. So having the microbiology. So, you know, that's on a small level, right? Having that understanding, did that give you a better insight? So when the quote unquote woo woo started happening, that you were better able to go.
Yeah. I really think there is something that happens between this space and cells and, on a much deeper level. Does that make sense? What I'm trying to say.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:22:28] I'm not sure really about the question, but I think I give you an answer and then we will figure out if this is the answer.
Damaged Parents: [00:22:34] That works.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:22:35] Yeah. If you have a concept that this is material, like this is really stuff then of course you can't understand that. This is all energy because if you look into the body, like what you said, there are the cells.
And if you look deeper, then you have all the elements of the cells. And when you look deeper than you have the molecules and go deeper, then you have like the electrons and protons, and then you go deeper and you see. This is only waves. Like if you go into quantum physics, for example, and then you see, Okay. This is not really a body.
Like there is. If you put this together as material, that is a handful of body of material and the rest is energy that is holding together, all these electrons and protons, for example.
And as soon as you have this kind of concept, like going back from that, we living in a material world until we live in a word of energy and understand more about quantum physics, for example, then you can see, Okay. With this concept, everything is influencing everything and this is how we connect to each other as well.
And yeah, I think is this the answer?
Damaged Parents: [00:23:48] Yes. Well, I don't know that it's the answer I wanted, but that was what I was trying to understand is that, so it sounds like what I hear you saying is yes, when having the background of, knowing how you keep going into the molecules, things continue to get smaller and smaller and smaller.
Yes, but at the same time, there's this energy. And so for instance, if we're talking about a table, that table is energy and it's being held together. It may be part of it is well, it's being held together also by energy, which is creating a solid in this world that we're a part of.
Because we're in this physical world, we see it as a table and yet it's still also energy.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:24:36] Yes. So as soon as you go into that, you use a microscope. And the electronic microscope, for example, then you can see that that is a lot of space between, the material. And so the energy.
is holding this table together and makes it look solid.
Damaged Parents: [00:24:56] Right. I would think that's a little bit of a hard jump to make first people of science, but maybe not if they're because like you said that the deeper you look, the more you see there's space
Swanette Kuntz: [00:25:11] Yep.
Damaged Parents: [00:25:12] And something happens in that space.
That's really interesting.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:25:17] Yeah. So I, I could re recommend for example, to read books from Rupert Sheldrake about the morphogenetic field. Or books from uh, Dieter Broers about the biophysics, and you can understand how waves influence the body and can change how your brain works. For example Dieter Broers, did a really interesting research on people who suffer from dementia and what he did,
he put ELF waves on the hat of these people. And they could, he could figure out that as long as these people were under this field, they can remember things. And as soon as this field is taken away, again, they were back in dementia. So for him, for example, the idea is that our brain is not the storage area for our memory, but it is more like a sender and receiver.
So this is already a different kind of concept. So nobody already found where is the information stored in our head. So perhaps it is not like the storage area, but it is only the sender and receiver.
Damaged Parents: [00:26:25] Like an antenna
Swanette Kuntz: [00:26:26] Yeah, but also sender so not only the antenna, but also the sender.
Damaged Parents: [00:26:30] Right.
Which I suppose that could. I mean, if they're what they're learning is that sugar impacts the amount of gray matter in the brain. It could potentially block. I mean, that does block our ability, which ends up people end up in with dementia or Alzheimer's right, because of, of the plaque in the brain.
Well, if we cover an antenna. This is just where I'm going at with what you're saying. If we cover that an antenna that, cause I think antennas send and receive, right? Like, this for CB radios, I think they have to have it's I'm not sure. I'm not totally sure how that works actually, now that I think about it, but anyway, let's just assume the antenna sends and receives just for.
My conversation here with you. And then we block that by putting lead or something around it, then we can't send and receive anymore. There's no communication. So maybe that plaque in the brain does the same thing. It's like putting led around our ability to receive or send for that matter or access that information.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:27:36] I think we are at the moment under so much influence of toxic substances in our nutrition, uh, in our environment. We also have a lot of waves that influence us because of the technology we use. And this will even be improved with using 5g in some areas. I think our body has to handle a lot of things at the same time.
And this also blocks us from, being healthy and working properly. So I think we really need to understand that if we want to come up with our abilities, that we really do have. We need to focus on really living in a healthy environment, bringing healthy food into us, drinking, clean water, and yeah.
Detox a lot. What we already kind of collected in our body. And from there we can start opening up more and more. And I think everybody, as I told you can do that. This is not that only special people are able, but you need some way to live.
And then you of course, need to open up yourself and be willing to get more into your intuition and understanding what is it that is what I'm making myself up? And what is it that I really feel inside of myself or ideas that come up. If you are willing to step into this and give yourself a kind of silent moment and think about a situation differently, like what would I do if I would totally go into using my intuition, then you would make other choices.
And then of course you can check facts. Now it does not that everything needs to be just intuitive, but, use about other things out of your body, if you see, okay, what does my body reaction on that? If I would make this kind of decision, how does it feel in my body? Now what does coming up? Like, is it that I feel like stones in my, my stomach or is it that I feel light and easy, like in flow doing this? Yeah.
Your body is sending so much information and like, yeah. How is it that when I want to create something, what is it that I need, for example, to create it? What kind of synchronicities I want to ask for? And then the universe is delivering it. As soon as you are clear about what you want to have, the universe is saying, okay, that may bring you to this end and this end and yeah, life can change very easy by that.
Damaged Parents: [00:30:10] Well, it might, it also be possible that, the universe has provided us with what we have. And sometimes we need to listen to that. Would that also be possible? We need to get in line with where we are meant to go and not maybe force what we think our idea is. And I'm thinking there might have to be a lot of listening involved in that and in silence and questioning of what, where does, where am I supposed to be right now to be in alignment with the universe?
Swanette Kuntz: [00:30:40] Definitely. Yes. Things you can think about like, how can I calm my mind down? Because most people are like always thinking about what has happened, like being in the past or what do I need to do later on? And they are not in the present time and you only can create your life in the present time.
So whatever you do now will create your future. But most people are so busy doing things like being in this rat wheel or thinking about things that are not important at the moment. And if you think about things that have been in the past again and again, you'll create your own story.
Damaged Parents: [00:31:21] So based on the past, we create what we think right now. It's supposed to be,
Swanette Kuntz: [00:31:27] Yeah.
Damaged Parents: [00:31:28] depending on the stories we tell ourselves. What would you recommend so that someone could start tapping into what the universe has for them?
Swanette Kuntz: [00:31:39] You definitely need stillness in your head. So whatever helps you, it could be like you do meditation, you go out into nature and focus on the environment. So what I do is for example a walk with using the different senses you got out into nature and you start with 10 minutes only using the eyes, looking around, what is it that you see?
And then. Look around you and perhaps to the sky and perhaps also on you, what you see about yourself, how you walk. So it's only seeing then you pick up one thing to remember about this part of the journey. Then you go to the next one. That is what do you hear? Use only the ears. What are the sounds that you hear perhaps
there are birds, or you can hear the wind going through the trees or when you're at the beach, perhaps you can hear the waves oh, you can hear yourself walking, like the clothes you have make a noise. So you only listen to what is going around you for 10 minutes. Then again, pick up something that can remember you to the space.
The next one is what you can feel.
Damaged Parents: [00:32:52] Okay.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:32:53] So you start touching the trees, touch the water, touch yourself, feel what you feel inside of yourself. So 10 minutes only feeling then again, take something with you that remembers you about what you have felt. Next one is smelling again. If you are in an environment in nature, there is a lot to smell.
So if you smell a flower or a tree, even the mat can smell. So again, 10 minutes only smelling and depending where you are. Oh and your take again, something for you to remember. And then the last one is tasting. So if you were in an environment where you can taste things, really try something.
Like what I sometimes do is I what does a dry dried grape? I don't know. I'm gonna
remember the name.
Damaged Parents: [00:33:46] a raisin
Swanette Kuntz: [00:33:47] yeah. You put it in your mouth. And the first thing is you go around with your tongue and feel, how is the structure of this? And then you put it in different areas of your mouth because different areas get different tastes.
And then you start chewing on that And, you can smell, you can taste like it is the fruit and it is sweet. And so you spent 10 minutes just experiencing something that you can taste. And this is again, like you have these experiments and when you do this, you are always focused in the present time.
Your mind will calm down because you can't think about what will I do tomorrow, as long as you're focusing on what you're seeing, hearing, feeling, smelling and tasting. So this is really.
Damaged Parents: [00:34:36] right. So because of that, you're in the moment and which is allowing the mind to only focus on maybe one thing at a time. And I'm thinking thoughts might pop in. If someone's trying to get used to. Being quiet and right. So how do you just go back to wait? No, this is what I'm focusing on or what happens inside the mind or what are some tips for people who are super over-excited when they're trying to be present?
Swanette Kuntz: [00:35:07] Recognize that as a thought say, okay. I have, again, this moment that thoughts come in accept that it is happening. And then say to the thought I recognized you I will come to you later. Now. I really want to focus on this journey. And if it is something that is important, write it down so that you don't forget it and then leave the thought.
Damaged Parents: [00:35:29] So it sounds like taking note of it. If it's something that you're worried about forgetting would be really important because otherwise it could hijack your ability to stay present. Yes.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:35:39] Okay. Yep
Damaged Parents: [00:35:39] Okay, this is really interesting. This is a, I mean, it sounds like overall what I'm hearing is not only are we connected to the universe around us, which is also inclusive with other people of plants, of animals, of everything that we are all simply a part of this energy in the universe.
And what happens when someone let's go with the, I guess the physical idea of what this world needs to look like.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:36:11] You want to understand more about what is my idea of the future?
Damaged Parents: [00:36:16] Yeah. I'm trying to understand what happens or what have you noticed with the people you work with when they're able to let go of this physical and move into the spiritual.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:36:27] They often understand that they do have a soul purpose.
Damaged Parents: [00:36:31] So they actually are better able to find the purpose of why they're here and what they need to do while they're here. That would be super important.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:36:41] so often it is like they get this feeling. Okay.
The job I'm in brings in the money, but it is nothing that is really bringing me up in the morning and that is filling me with energy. That brings me into a flow, or that brings me into a stage where I really forget about time because it is what I really love to do.
So they figure out that that is a difference between this work and how a state would be if they would be totally in what they're aligned to. And this brings up like, Okay perhaps I want to change something and I want to figure out what is it that I need to create or that I want to create in my lifetime.
Also, if you understand, what is kind of your legacy? So what is that, that people should remember about you when yeah. After you died, also you left your bio body somehow. Yeah. So, what is that? That people should remember about me and often yeah. You see that people, when they come near to death, they say Okay.
I worked a lot and I want that for my family. But if I would have more time, I would do something. And this could be whatever it is now, perhaps you are very creative and you want to create some artwork or you are a healer or whatever it is, but there is something that often contributes to create a better future for humanity and for Gaia.
And it is not, like earning a lot of money. Money will flow when you do what you like. And when you contribute. To the better future, but it is not like the main focus. It, what comes out is it coming from your heart and it is coming from your soul. And if you go with that, it would create something that is fantastic, whatever it is.
And you will attract other people that are resonating with what you're doing and they're willing to. Be part of your community and then this community grows and whatever your service or products are, people are attracted by that. and, will ask you about, can you give me this, or can you give me the service or where can I buy the product you're creating?
Because it's so beautiful. And so this is a process that as soon as you go into your soul purpose, you go into another frequency also. Because frequency, you will resonate with people who are the same frequency. And so then it grows.
Damaged Parents: [00:39:05] Well, so I think what I heard you just say is that as we shift into finding our purpose and staying present, In that spiritual realm that our energy vibrates at a different level. As we become an alignment with that energy, then not only that are we in alignment with our purpose, but also we start attracting those other people that are similar vibrating at that same frequency.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:39:29] Yes, definitely.
Damaged Parents: [00:39:30] Fantastic. Okay. We are at the time of the podcast and I always throw this out there at the very end, because it's kind of a surprise and it's just three things. That you want people to walk away from the podcast with. So whether it's three things it could be some things we've already talked about.
It might not whatever pops into your mind at the end of the podcast that the listeners need to hear right now.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:39:56] Yeah. So definitely it is give yourself time and go into stillness to connect with your higher self. And with that figure out if you are on the right track at the moment, or if there is a need. Or if you are willing to change something so that you can step into your soul purpose and it is like, also being brave enough that you are a powerful creature creator and that you can change the world, not only for you, but for humanity and last but not least.
It is like everybody. We need to connect the people who are the ones often feel that they stand alone with what they want to do. And it is time to come back into co-creation and connection and to create communities that are so powerful that we can all bring up the better future for everybody.
Damaged Parents: [00:40:55] Thank you so much, Swanette I'm so glad I got to have you on the show today.
Swanette Kuntz: [00:41:00] Oh, Thank you for having me.
Damaged Parents: [00:41:02] Thank you for listening to this week's episode of Relatively Damaged by Damaged Parents. We've really enjoyed talking to Swanette about how she was able to find her purpose and embrace her spirituality. We especially liked when she explained how so much depends on the stories we tell ourselves. And encouraged us to tap into what the universe has for us.
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